Life Handbook

Health:

* Drink plenty of water.
* Eat breakfast like a king, lunch like a prince and dinner like a beggar Rasulullah saw : berhenti makan sebelum kenyang
* Eat more foods that grow on trees and plants and eat less food that is manufactured in plants.
* Live with the 3 E’s — Energy,Enthusiasm, and Empathy.
* Make time for prayer shalat
* Play more games.
* Read more books than you did in 2008.
* Sit in silence for at least 10 minutes each day khusyuk
* Sleep for 7 hours.
* Take a 10-30 minutes walk every day. And while you walk, smile.

Personality:

* Don’t compare your life to others’. You have no idea what their journey is all about.
* Don’t have negative thoughts or things you cannot control. Instead invest your energy in the positive present moment.
* Don’t over do. Keep your limits.
* Don’t take yourself so seriously. No one else does.
* Don’t waste your precious energy on gossip ghibah
* Dream more while you are awake.
* Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need.
* Forget issues of the past. Don’t remind your partner with his/her mistakes of the past. That will ruin your present happiness.
* Life is too short to waste time hating anyone. Don’t hate others.
* Make peace with your past so it won’t spoil the present.
* No one is in charge of your happiness except you.
* Realize that life is a school and you are here to learn. Problems are simply part of the curriculum that appear and fade away like algebra class but the lessons you learn will last a lifetime.
* Smile and laugh more.
* You don’t have to win every argument. Agree to disagree.

Society:

* Call your family often.
* Each day give something good to others.
* Forgive everyone for everything.
* Spend time with people over the age of 70 & under the age of 6.
* Try to make at least three people smile each day.
* What other people think of you is none of your business.
* Your job won’t take care of you when you are sick. Your family and friends will. Stay in touch.

Life:

* Do the right thing!
* Get rid of anything that isn’t useful, beautiful or joyful.
* GOD heals everything.
* However good or bad a situation is, it will change.
* No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up.
* The best is yet to come.
* When you awake alive in the morning, thank GOD for it keutamaan shalat subuh
* Your Inner most is always happy. So, be happy.

Bagian tubuh yg paling penting...

Ibuku selalu bertanya padaku apa bagian tubuh yang
paling penting.

Bertahun-tahun, aku selalu menebak dengan jawaban
yang aku anggap benar.

Ketika aku muda, aku pikir suara adalah yang paling
penting bagi kita sebagai manusia, jadi aku jawab,
"Telinga, Bu."
Jawabnya, "Bukan. Banyak orang yang tuli.
Tapi, teruslah memikirkannya dan aku menanyakanmu
lagi nanti."

Beberapa tahun kemudian sebelum dia bertanya padaku
lagi.
Sejak jawaban pertama, kini aku yakin jawaban kali
ini pasti benar.
Jadi, kali ini aku memberitahukannya,
"Bu, penglihatan sangat penting bagi semua orang,
jadi pastilah mata kita." Dia memandangku dan berkata,
"Kamu belajar dengan cepat, tapi jawabanmu masih
salah karena banyak orang yang buta."

Gagal lagi, aku meneruskan usahaku mencari jawaban
baru dan dari tahun ke tahun, Ibu terus bertanya
padaku
beberapa kali dan jawaban dia selalu,
"Bukan. Tapi, kamu makin pandai dari tahun ke tahun,
anakku."

Akhirnya tahun lalu, kakekku meninggal.
Semua keluarga sedih. Semua menangis. Bahkan, ayahku
menangis.
Aku sangat ingat itu karena itulah saat kedua kalinya
aku melihatnya menangis.
Ibuku memandangku ketika tiba giliranku untuk
mengucapkan selamat tinggal pada kakek.

Dia bertanya padaku, "Apakah kamu sudah tahu apa
bagian tubuh yang paling penting, sayang?"




Aku terkejut ketika Ibu bertanya pada saat seperti
ini. Aku sering berpikir, ini hanyalah permainan
antara
Ibu dan aku.

Ibu melihat kebingungan di wajahku dan memberitahuku,
"Pertanyaan ini penting. Ini akan menunjukkan padamu
apakah kamu sudah benar-benar "hidup".
Untuk semua bagian tubuh yang kamu beritahu padaku
dulu, aku selalu berkata kamu salah dan aku telah
memberitahukan kamu kenapa. Tapi, hari ini adalah
hari di mana kamu harus belajar pelajaran yang
sangat penting."

Dia memandangku dengan wajah keibuan.
Aku melihat matanya penuh dengan air mata.
Dia berkata, "Sayangku, bagian tubuh yang paling
penting adalah bahumu."

Aku bertanya, "Apakah karena fungsinya untuk menahan
kepala?"

Ibu membalas, "Bukan, tapi karena bahu dapat menahan
kepala seorang teman atau orang yang kamu sayangin
ketika mereka menangis.
Kadang-kandang dalam hidup ini, semua orang perlu bahu
untuk menangis. Aku cuma berharap, kamu punya cukup
kasih sayang dan teman-teman agar kamu selalu punya
bahu untuk menangis kapan pun kamu membutuhkannya."

Akhirnya, aku tahu, bagian tubuh yang paling penting
adalah tidak menjadi orang yang mementingkan diri
sendiri. Tapi, simpati terhadap penderitaan yang
dialamin oleh orang lain. Orang akan melupakan apa
yang kamu katakan...
Orang akan melupakan apa yang kamu lakukan...
Tapi, orang TIDAK akan pernah lupa bagaimana kamu
membuat mereka berarti.

Note from GOD

* Hari ini Aku akan menangani semua masalahmu
* Tolong, ingatlah bahwa Aku tidak memerlukan bantuanmu
* Bila kamu ditempatkan di dalam situasi yang kamu tidak mampu untuk menangani, janganlah berusaha untuk memutuskannya sendiri
* Lebih baik kamu masukkan ke dalam kotak “untuk ditangani oleh Tuhan sendiri”
* Masalah itu akan ditanggapi pada waktuKu, dan bukan waktumu
* Sekali masalah itu diletakkan di dalam kotak, janganlah kamu memikirkan atau mengeluarkannya lagi dari kotak itu.
* Memikirkan atau mengeluarkan kembali akan menunda pemecahan dari masalahmu
* Bila kamu mengira dapat menanganinya sendiri, tolong bawalah ke dalam doa-doamu, agar kamu yakin bahwa itulah pemecahan yang terbaik.
* Karena Aku sendiri tidak pernah tidur atau mengantuk, tidak ada gunanya bagimu untuk tidak tidur
* Istirahatlah, anakKu. Bila kamu ingin menghubungi Aku, Aku hanya sejauh sebuah doa
* Bila kamu sukar untuk tidur malam ini, ingatlah akan banyak keluarga yang bahkan tidak mempunyai tempat tidur untuk merebahkan dirinya
* Bila kamu kebetulan terjebak dalam kemacetan lalu lintas, janganlah cemas. Ada banyak orang dalam dunia ini yang tidak pernah menyetir mobil
* Bila kamu kebetulan mengalami hari yang sial, ingatlah akan orang yang sudah begitu lama tidak mempunyai pekerjaan
* Bila kamu cemas akan suatu hubungan kawan yang menjadi jelek, ingatlah akan orang yang tak pernah mengalami apa arti mengasihi dan sebaliknya dikasihi
* Bila kamu tidak suka bila akhir minggu telah lewat, ingatlah kepada wanita yang harus bekerja 12 jam sehari, selama satu minggu penuh untuk dapat memberikan makan kepada anak-anaknya
* Bila mobilmu rusak di tengah perjalanan, jauh dari keramaian kota untuk dapat bantuan, ingatlah akan mereka yang lumpuh yang akan gembira sekali untuk dapat berjalan
* Bila kamu mengamati dengan sedih sehelai rambut yang mulai memutih, ingatlah akan pasien kanker yang menjalani terapi kemo yang rindu dapat mengamati rambutnya
* Bila kamu tidak tahu dan bertanya-tanya, apakah sebenarnya tujuan hidupmu, berterima kasihlah. Terdapat banyak orang yang tidak memiliki umur panjang untuk mengetahuinya

last song

the morning she died in the my room
as the whole town was sleeping
she held her breath like a star in bloom
could burn down tomorrow

the summer breeze was caressing me
as i walked through the market
the golden light of a friend beside
had died out for good

no, nothing can amaze me
cause everything's behind me
no, nothing else can please me
since all i had been said free

the night before in the dining room
i recall it now
she said "i feel for you my friend
cause i'll soon be leaving"

the autumn comes just like other years
but i won't see the signs
the sun above's sowing magic seeds
but it wants someone back

Could Sky

i'd catch some stars for you
and just for you
i'd paint the grey sky blue
and just for you

so don't tell me you want the rain

from a cloudy sky
to wash away the pain
that i've given you again
i've always tried to find
what satisfies your mind
but i will never know
where you are to go
but i want you to know
do you want a golden ring?
i would buy you anything...

i'd read some poems for you
just for you
i hope they won't make you blue
like they used to do

don't tell me you want the rain
don't tell me you want the rain

Starcrossed

Behold this night, still and clear
You look here just like an angel sleeping
I wish I could ease your fears
I would catch the diamond tears you're weeping
In your eyes I would hide
By your side I could defy
The forces tearing us apart
But reality, as it seems
Looking back, is that our dream
Was fated from the start

Girl we're star-crossed and can't escape
We're condemned and can only wait
At this time now it's far too late
To save us from our fate

I'll remain in your hold
Body, mind, heart and soul
As long as I breathe
Though consequence takes its toll
All is out of our control
That's how it will be
So close your eyes my young bride
Listen to me one last time
There's something I have to say
When your faith turns to despair
Always will my love be there
And never fade away

Girl we're star-crossed and can't escape
We're condemned and can only wait
At this time now it's far too late
To save us from our fate
You can't save us
You can't save us

Girl we're star-crossed and can't escape
We're condemned and can only wait
At this time now it's far too late
The poison's in our veins
It's true
You know that I'd die for you
You know that I'd die for you
You know that I'd die for you

Forever true
I'll see you through

Wonderwall

Today is gonna be the day
That they're gonna throw it back to you
By now you should've somehow
Realized what you gotta do
I don't believe that anybody
Feels the way I do about you now

Backbeat, the word is on the street
That the fire in your heart is out
I'm sure you've heard it all before
But you never really had a doubt
I don't believe that anybody
Feels the way I do about you now

And all the roads we have to walk are winding
And all the lights that lead us there are blinding
There are many things that I would
Like to say to you
But I don't know how

Because maybe
You're gonna be the one that saves me
And after all
You're my wonderwall

Today was gonna be the day
But they'll never throw it back to you
By now you should've somehow
Realized what you're not to do
I don't believe that anybody
Feels the way I do about you now

And all the roads that lead you there were winding
And all the lights that light the way are blinding
There are many things that I would like to say to you
But I don't know how

I said maybe
You're gonna be the one that saves me
And after all
You're my wonderwall

I said maybe
You're gonna be the one that saves me
And after all
You're my wonderwall

I said maybe
You're gonna be the one that saves me
You're gonna be the one that saves me
You're gonna be the one that saves me

Complimentary "Iris" Ringtone

And I'd give up forever to touch you,
Cause I know that you feel me somehow.
You're the closest to heaven that I'll ever be,
And I don't want to go home right now.

And all I can taste is this moment,
And all I can breathe is your life,
And sooner or later it's over,
I just don't want to miss you tonight.

And I don't want the world to see me,
Cause I don't think that they'd understand.
When everything's made to be broken,
I just want you to know who I am.

And you cant fight the tears that ain't coming,
Or the moment of the truth in your lies.
When everything feels like the movies,
Yeah you bleed just to know you're alive.

And I don't want the world to see me,
'Cause I don't think that they'd understand.
When everything's made to be broken,
I just want you to know who I am.

And I don't want the world to see me,
Cause I don't think that they'd understand.
When everything's made to be broken,
I just want you to know who I am.

And I don't want the world to see me,
Cause I dont think that they'd understand.
When everything's made to be broken,
I just want you to know who I am.
I just want you to know who I am.
I just want you to know who I am.
I just want you to know who I am.

Lonely as You

What would I do
Lonely as you
Pleasure or pain
I can't choose

What would I do
Lonely as you
Pleasure or pain
I can't choose

Wake up
You're dreaming
I can't stand your screaming
Drowning out these prayers
Just some words without meaning

Spare all the breaching
My secrets worth keeping
No one understands like I do

Keep out of reach
I'm your leading deletion
Hide behind these masks
Though they still see
Right through them

Every now and then
You're down and out my friend
Down and out again
Down and out again
Down and out again
But I'm down with you

One more time for the last time
One more time for release
One more time for the last time
Everyone wants to believe

Blame it on you
Thought these years
I've been losing
Blame it on the past
It's the last place I knew you
Blame all the children
They're raging and ruined
Blame it on the black and the blue

Every now and then
You're down and out my friend
Down and out again
Down and out again
Down and out again
But I'm down with you

One more time for the last time
One more time for release
One more time for the last time
Everyone wants to believe

Every now and then
You're down and out my friend
Down and out again
Down and out again
Down and out again
But I'm down with you

One more time for the last time
One more time for release
One more time for the last time
Everyone wants to believe

One more time for the last time
One more time for release
One more time for the last time
Everyone wants to believe

One more time for the last time
One more time for release
One more time for the very last time
Everyone wants to believe
All right

Times Like These

I am a one way motorway
I'm the one that drives away
then follows you back home
I am a street light shining
I'm a wild light blinding bright
burning off alone

it's times like these you learn to live again
it's times like these you give and give again
it's times like these you learn to love again
it's times like these time and time again

I am a new day rising
I'm a brand new sky
to hang the stars upon tonight
I am a little divided
do I stay or run away
and leave it all behind?

it's times like these you learn to live again
it's times like these you give and give again
it's times like these you learn to love again
it's times like these time and time again

Stand By Me

When the night has come
And the land is dark
And the moon is the only light we see
No I won't be afraid
No I won't be afraid
Just as long as you stand, stand by me

And darling, darling stand by me
Oh, now, now, stand by me
Stand by me, stand by me

If the sky that we look upon
Should tumble and fall
And the mountain should crumble to the sea
I won't cry, I won't cry
No I won't shed a tear
Just as long as you stand, stand by me

And darling, darling stand by me
Oh, stand by me
Stand by me, stand by me, stand by me

Whenever you're in trouble won't you stand by me
Oh, now, now, stand by me
Oh, stand by me, stand by me, stand by me

Darling, darling stand by me
Stand by me
Oh stand by me, stand by me, stand by me

Don't Look Back in Anger

Slip inside the eye of your mind
Don't you know you might find
A better place to play
You said that you've never been (sounds like "bean" in order to rhyme
w/"seen")
But all the things that you've seen
They slowly fade away
So I'll start a revolution from my bed
'Cuz you said the brains I had went to my head
Step outside, summertime's in bloom
Stand up beside the fireplace
Take that look from off your face
You ain't ever gonna burn my heart out
And so, Sally can wait
She knows it's too late as we're walking on by
Her soul slides away
But don't look back in anger
I heard you say
Take me to the place where you go
Where nobody knows
Where nobody knows if it's night or day
Please don't put your life in the hands
Of a rock and roll band
Who'll throw it all away
I'm gonna start a revolution from my bed
'Cuz you said the brains I had went to my head
Step outside, 'cuz summertime's in bloom
Stand up beside the fireplace
Take that look from off your face
'Cuz you ain't ever gonna burn my heart out
And so, Sally can wait
She knows it's too late as she's walking on by
My soul slides away
But don't look back in anger
I heard you say
(guitar solo)
So, Sally can wait
She knows it's too late as we're walking on by
Her soul slides away
But don't look back in anger
I heard you say
So, Sally can wait
She knows it's too late as she's walking on by
My soul slides away
But don't look back in anger
Don't look back in anger
I heard you say
At least not today.

Bizzare Love Triangle

I get a shot right through into a bolt of blue

It's no problem of mine, but it's a problem I find

Living a life that I can't leave behind

There's no sense in telling me

The wisdom of a fool won't set you free

But that's the way that it goes and it's what nobody knows

And every day my confusion grows

CHORUS:

Every time I see you falling

I get down on my knees and pray

I'm waiting for that final moment

You say the words that I can't say

I feel fine and I feel good

I feel like I never should

Whenever I get this way, I just don't know what to say

Why can't we be ourselves like we were yesterday

I'm not sure what this could mean

I don't think you're what you seem

I do admit to myself that if I hurt someone else

Then I'll never see just what we're meant to be

Hey Leonardo

She don't care about my car
She don't care about my money
And that's real good because I don't got alot to spend
But if I did it wouldn't mean nothin'

She likes me for me
Not because I look like Tyson Beckford
With the charm of Robert Redford
Oozing out my ears
But what she sees
Are my faults and indecisions
My insecure conditions
And the tears upon the pillow that I shed

She don't care about my big screen
Or my collection of DVD's
Things like that just never mattered much to her
Plus she don't watch to much t.v.

And she don't care that I can fly her
To places she ain't never been
But if she really wants to go
I think deep down she knows that
All she has to say is when

She likes me for me
Not because I hang with Leonardo
Or that guy who played in 'Fargo'
I think his name is Steve
She's the one for me
And I just can't live without her
My arms belong around her
And I'm so glad I found her once again

And I'm so glad I found her once again
And I'm so glad I found her once again
Gazing at the ceiling
as we entertain our feelings in the dark
The things that we're afraid of are gonna show us
what we're made of in the end

She likes me for me
Not because I sing like Pavarotti
Or because I am such a hottie
I like her for her
Not because she's phat like Cindy Crawford
She has got so much to offer
Why does she waste all her time with me
There must be something there that I don't see

She likes me for me
Not because I'm tough like Dirty Hairy
Make her laugh just like Jim Carrey
Unlike the Cable Guy
But what she sees
Is that I can't live without her
My arms belong around her
And I'm so glad I found her once again
Found her once again
I'm so glad I found her once again
On again

Sang Mantan

.dlu akk kw puja
.dlu akk kw syg
.dlu akk sang juara yg SLALU ENGKW CINTA. .
.kni roda tlah brputar
.kni akk kw hina
.kni akk kw buang jauh dr hdupmu
.kni akk sngsra
.roda mmang telah brputar. .

.MANA jnji mnismu
.mncntaiQ smpai MATI?
.kni engkw pun prgi
.saad Q trpruk sndri
.akulah *sang mantan*. .
.akulah sang mntan. .
.sakid teriris SEPI
.ktika cnta TLAH PRGI
.akulah sang mntan. .
.akulah sang mntan. .
.mna jnji mnismu
.stia smpai akk mati?
.kni engkw pun prgi
.saad Q jtuh dan sndri. .

.mna jnji2mu. .?